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Thursday, July 02, 2009




I'm at work and our first protesters have arrived. Pro-lifers are opposing our companies stance on abortion. Except our company is a group for educator's and teacher's in our public school system, we don't have a political stance on the abortion issue. Maybe their time would be better served somewhere else.

As a representative of my company I have no opinion, but personally I always have something to say. First of all, in addition to the people with the signs, they also have a truck driving around with messages on the side and one side says "Tolerance is not always moral" with a picture of a slave in shackles and another of a Black man hanging from a tree. As an African-American I'm offended by that image. Years ago a cousin tried to do our family tree, but ran into a dead end because slaves were rarely named as humans, simply listed as property. Maybe I'm being too sensitive, but as someone who's family tree was cut off at the roots, I don't want you using the history of slavery in America to promote your cause. Period.
As a mother I'm offended by the graphic pictures they use. They creep me out, my preschoolers are freaked by them. I get the whole shock value thing, but I don't need you trying to shock my babies while we're driving down the street. I can have a moral discussion with my child without graphic images thankyouverymuch.
How can a pro-lifer take a life? Stopping (killing!)an abortion doctor saves thousands of unborn babies, but death is death. Is there an age limit on who you can kill? You can't kill an 8 week old fetus, but a 60 year old man is fair game? Whether you agree with something someone is doing or not, only God can take a life. You can't just be pro-unborn fetus life, you must be pro-life, period.
Along the same vein, many pro-lifers are also in favor of the death penalty. How do they justify that?
And is there really anyone who is anti-life?
John Kerry really got razed because of his opinion on abortion, but that was one time I can honestly say I completely agree with a politician. The world would be a much more pleasant place to live if you all agreed with me. Understand that I've got all the answers. I got it right, but I do respect the few of you that are holding out and not coming around to my way of thinking. I will always vote for your right to disagree with me and my beliefs, even if you're wrong. How I feel about abortion morally my not agree with what you feel, but isn't it lovely to live in a country that allows us to feel what we feel?
I will never participate in a pro-life rally. Teaching a class pre-pregnancy? Knitting and crocheting blankets for women who struggled then decided not to have an abortion? Fundraiser for single parents? Counseling services for rape and abuse victims? I'll be there every time.
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Tuesday, June 09, 2009


One day they may kill me for posting this, but I went to check on my kids before going to sleep and this is what I found. The apparently fell asleep while watching a movie and never made it to their own beds. That explains the Elmo sheets and Hello Kitty blanket and why they were in the same bed. I offer no explanation as to why AJ has his head buried in Bubba's butt.

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I owe a couple of people things via mail. I haven't forgotten about you. This stalker situation really put a stop to my life. He's still around, but I'm gaining a bit more freedom, so my goal is to have stuff mailed by the end of July. If I owe you something and you haven't received it by the first week of August, email me at ebonyblue@mindless.com. I probably lost your contact info in the move. Thanks.

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Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy Mother's Day to all!!!
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Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Outside My Window… crazy folks are smoking in the rain

I am thinking… about how grateful I am that I am no longer a smoker in need of a fix


I am thankful for… a working day means I'll have a couple of coins to jingle in my pocket next week


From the kitchen… I grabbed frozen burgers from WC Lounge for lunch and cashews.

I am wearing… a blue top and khaki pants. I love business casual workplaces.


I am creating… coffee cup cozies to be included in swag bags at a craft fair.


I am going… the library for more books I don't really need because my home is filled with books "to be read"


I am reading… The Daughter of God by Lewis Perdue, a DaVinci Code type thriller and Simplify Your Life and get more out of it! by H. Norman Wright


I am hoping… my stalker is arrested again because he's regained some confidence and is knocking on my door again


I am hearing… a group gathering for a meeting


Around the house… is lots of clutter and cleaning that needs done. Wanna come over and help?

One of my favorite things… my planner. Maybe I'll describe the one I created for myself soon.


A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week... call around and see about moving, cleaning, crocheting those cozies, designing a crocheted wallet that my niece requested

A picture thought for you… Bear got into my makeup.

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Monday, April 13, 2009

My sister is headed to the airport. We had a great visit and it was nice to see all of them. We got into it because she wanted to buy my 12-year old daughter bootie shorts and a padded bra. I love my sister and I appreciate her spoiling my kiddos, but I don't need my daughter attracting the attention of men twice her age. She already looks 15 or more, my sister is trying to push that up. I can't take it. Do you other mothers allow your children to wear stuff like this? I know it's the current fad, but still. Do you think it matters if your child might be a little more developed than other girls her age. Do you think it matters if your child is more mature, or do you just say no?

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Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Remember when I said my stalker was gone. I was living in a false sense of reality. He showed up a couple of weeks ago. He didn't cause any trouble for me (my neighbor punching him in the eye may have helped with that), but we were getting lazy not locking the door and not turning on the alarm at night. But we're back to being vigilant and the prospect of moving is not so far in the horizon. There is hope....

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Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Oh.My.God. Is this really happening? Are we about to make Barack Obama are first African-American president today? I just can't believe it. Everyone always say that you can be anything, do anything, but today I think I actually believe it. Whoopi Goldberg said it best on The View. I can look into the eyes of my beautiful little brown baby boys and tell them to unpack their bags. Hallelujah, God is good!

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